6 Reasons Why La La Land Is A Film For Dreamers

Hey guys!


As I told you in my last post (click here to read it) on Miguel’s (my boyfriend if you’re new to the blog) birthday we went to see La La Land. Now I know this is one of the most hyped films here on the crazy world of the internet, but let me tell you, it got me on the first line.

When I went to see it I already knew the City of Stars lyrics by heart. But I’m not gonna talk about of how much I love it, on how obsessed I am, on how perfectly fitting every move and every note were, I’m not even gonna talk about how Ryan Gosling surprised me with his amazing voice, and great – I mean great! – dancing skills, same goes for Emma Stone that by not being a Broadway type of voice stepped up and did an amazing job, as usually. No, I’m not gonna talk about anything of that. Instead, I want to talk about the things that La La Land made me think about, the things that as a dreamer made me feel like I was looking at a mirror, and the things that were so relatable that I can’t even!

** Spoiler alert, read at your own risk **


1 . We’re confused AF


And I’m not saying confused like in “should I be a doctor or a journalist?” I mean “should I keep pursuing this dream and probably stay at my parents for the rest of my life, or should I quit and be miserable for the rest of my life?” If you saw my little melt down while I had an insomnias the other night (add @ellaivoire for fun – and sometimes conflicted – times). To be honest it’s exhausting to always have the need to stick up to ourselves and to our dream, especially because being an artist isn’t exactly something that would made a parent proud at the age of 17? 20? I’m 22 so, at what age does this really start? Let me guide you through a conversation with any adult:

Adult: So, what are you doing with your life?

Me: I’m working on a book right now.

Adult: So… You’re going to be published?

Me: Hopefully

Adult: And what are you doing with your life? To make money, I mean.

Me: That’s it.

Adult: …

I’m always a bit sorry and sad that at some point humanity decided that success = money and power, when success should be = happiness.


  1. We’re ashamed to dream


Mia was a struggling actress, but she was also a practical barista who rarely ever let the world know that she dreamed. Let’s be honest here- having a seemingly impossible dream is anything but cool in this days. People want to earn well, and most times people follow the path that they’re supposed to. Parents say so, priests say so, and all your friends are doing it, so why in the world would you want to earn minimum wage – with a chance of getting a higher position – there’s always that little note that makes your parents say: “see?!!” instead of doing the thing you love but with which you can’t pay your bills?




  1. There is no “in between” for us


You either stick for your “inner jam” or to what you are paid to do, there’s no in between. There’s no “I’m going to be paid to write the most amazing drama story you have ever read”, there’s more “I’m going to be paid to write about a tea that makes people get slimmer” (not really, I would never do a deal like that, but you know what I mean).

Mia tries really hard, but in fact she is a realist trying to be a dreamer. Seb, however is a complete dreamer. I can’t tell you enough about how much I’ve related to this. I want to be a writer (or a singer, but that one is like a far far away dream), Miguel, however wants to be a musician. I’m a realist trying to dream, he’s a full on dreamer. And that brings me to my third point:


  1. We need other dreamers


We need someone who fully understands our passion, our hard work to get anywhere and that pushes us to dream even bigger, to be even better. Mia remembered Seb about his dream when he settled for something apart (but that was still in the music field, and that was paying the bills – like really well!). Sure, their dreams broke them apart and that’s part of why the film is beautiful. We do need other dreamers because without them, we just settle for less than the thing that makes us happy.


  1. We’re passionate


Even though most of the times passionate mean dramatic, without a little bit of drama life would be too plain. Sebastian had Mia falling in love with jazz just because he loved it. Like she said, “People gravitate towards passion.”


  1. We’re leave behind a wonderful mess


We’re broken inside because our dreams might never come true. We’re also always excited because at any minute our dreams might come true *eek*! That means that at the first opportunity we’re going to jump on board of the ship toward our dream, and sometimes that means that we’re going to leave something or someone behind. Again, we’re broken inside but at the same time, so very excited. When Sebastian went on to follow his modified dream, he left behind a hurt and alone Mia. He left her as a mess who had given up on the dream he urged her to follow.


Are you a dreamer? Or are you a realist?

Here’s to the ones who dream, foolish as they may seem.



  1. Zwitsy

    25 February, 2017 at 23:12

    I am in between! I want to pursue on my dreams but since I am a mom, I need to settle for things that can make us a living. Oh well, I have seen this movie half yet so thanks for reminding me to watch this film completely. I am quite intrigue of its ending. I just hope to be able to learn something from it.

  2. Lilinha Espindula

    25 February, 2017 at 22:34

    I am a bit of both, a dreamer that likes to dream big, but also realist that goes after my dreams! 🙂

  3. Ana De-Jesus

    25 February, 2017 at 18:26

    I think I am both, I dream of making it in a job that I know will give me very little money but at the same time I do it for the passion not the money. At the same time I know I cannot pay my rent with dreams and have to be realistic too x

  4. dearmummyblog

    24 February, 2017 at 16:36

    My mummy loved La La Land. She’s a dreamer and a creative so is always daydreaming and fantasising over things x

  5. emmaeatsandexplores

    24 February, 2017 at 16:18

    I would so love to see this film but my boyfriend heard the word musical and vetoed it! Gonna have to find a girlfriend who wants to see it or take my mum! thanks for the insights – it sounds so much fun

  6. ChelseaMamma

    24 February, 2017 at 14:25

    I so want to watch La la land. In reality I am a realist but I do love to dream too

  7. Sophie Whiffen

    24 February, 2017 at 12:33

    I’ve been meaning to watch this as a lot of people have raved about it! Great post 🙂

  8. clairejustine

    24 February, 2017 at 9:41

    I think we will be going to see this soon. Not sure if I would like it or not but I know my husband would 🙂

  9. five little doves

    23 February, 2017 at 21:46

    I LOVE Ryan Gosling, so any film with him is a winner. Plus I have always been a dreamer! I downloaded this today so will give it a watch!

  10. joannavictoria

    23 February, 2017 at 21:27

    In like to hopefully be between the two, i definitely want to see this film at some point

  11. Jo (Fallen Angel)

    23 February, 2017 at 21:10

    Good question at the end there. Hmm, I think I am a dreamer, but I dream of things that are realistic and I figure out ways to achieve my dreams. I know if something is out of my reach but then I try and find alternatives 🙂

  12. Home and Horizon

    23 February, 2017 at 20:49

    Ooooh this is food for though isn’t it? I think I’m a bit of both – a dreamer because I think without hope there is nothing – and a bit of a realist because…well, I don’t want to be away with the fairies 😉 I haven’t seen the film myself but I’ve heard great things about it!

  13. Elinor Hill aka Beachhutcook

    23 February, 2017 at 20:44

    I must see this film and join in the wonderment as I feel that I’m missing out. I love to dream. I make a good dreamer. It’s how I write my recipes!

  14. wha2wear

    23 February, 2017 at 20:21

    wow! I love this post, specially the live pictures 😀 I haven’t watch La La Land but I’d like to see it, I think I’m a big dreamer although I try to be more realistic haha x

  15. Selina

    23 February, 2017 at 20:19

    I’d like to think there is a happy balence between the two but somehow it’s harder to describe x

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